Affirming Antelope

Coaching an athlete

Practice talking to an athlete whose nerves take over in games

A free motivational interviewing role-play. You talk with Maya Torres, played by an AI that stays in character, then get feedback on the moves you made.

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Maya TorresForward, college women's soccerSophomore, second season on the team

How Maya opens

“Hey Coach. Is this about Saturday? I know I wasn't great.”

Your brief

You coach Maya, a sophomore forward who's one of the best players on your team in practice. In games she's been a different player for most of the season: hesitant on the ball, passing up open shots, and fading in big moments. You moved her to the bench for the last game. You've asked her to stay after practice to talk.

Your goalUnderstand what games feel like for Maya and draw out her own reasons and ideas for playing with more confidence, without fixing it for her.

What tends to shut them down

  • Telling her to just relax or have more confidence

  • Jumping to fixes (visualization, a routine) before understanding

  • Talking about playing time, starting spots, or the scholarship as leverage

  • Comparing her with teammates

  • Closed questions that she can answer with "I'll focus more"

  • Accepting "it's fine" and moving on

  • Framing it as a toughness or mental-strength problem

What tends to open them up

  • Reflecting the pressure or worry under her upbeat answers

  • Normalizing nerves without dismissing them

  • Affirming specific things she does well in practice

  • Open questions about what games feel like compared with practice

  • Reflecting how much she cares about the team and the game

  • Asking what she thinks would help, before offering anything

  • Emphasizing that what she tries next is her call

Maya also has a backstory you won't see here. In the role-play, you draw it out.

Talk with Maya yourself

The role-play opens in your browser. Type your replies or say them out loud, and finish with feedback on the moves you made.

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