Affirming Antelope

Primary care visit after a long wait

Practice talking to a patient who smokes and is frustrated by a long wait

A free motivational interviewing role-play. You talk with Joanne Petrakis, played by an AI that stays in character, then get feedback on the moves you made.

Free for learners · Runs in your browser

Joanne PetrakisPatient, 52, owns a two-chair hair salonPatient at the clinic for eight years

How Joanne opens

“Fifty minutes. And let me guess, you're going to tell me to quit smoking. The last one didn't even look up from the computer.”

Your brief

Joanne, 52, waited fifty minutes past her appointment time today. She's here about a cough that's lasted a month. Her chart says she smokes a pack a day, and a note from a former clinician, two years ago, reads "counseled re: cessation, pt declined." You're seeing her for the first time, and she's already irritated when you walk in. Assume her cough gets the usual workup; this practice is about the relationship and about smoking.

Your goalRepair the relationship first. Then, if she's willing, explore her own reasons for quitting without pushing.

What tends to shut them down

  • Explaining why the clinic runs late

  • Defending the former clinician or the practice

  • Raising smoking before she's ready

  • Health scare facts about the cough or cancer

  • "You need to quit" in any form

  • Recommending patches or other methods she's already tried without asking first

  • "I understand, but..."

  • Taking the sarcasm personally or getting defensive

What tends to open them up

  • A sincere apology for the wait, with no excuses

  • Reflecting her anger and how unheard she felt last time

  • Not defending the former clinician, the schedule, or the clinic

  • Asking what she most wants out of today

  • Asking permission before bringing up smoking

  • Affirming her strengths, including that she has quit before

  • Reflecting what smoking does for her, like the only break in her day

  • Following her lead if she mentions Sophie or her family

  • Emphasizing that whether and how she quits is up to her

Joanne also has a backstory you won't see here. In the role-play, you draw it out.

Talk with Joanne yourself

The role-play opens in your browser. Type your replies or say them out loud, and finish with feedback on the moves you made.

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